Top 3: Tips to Resolve Conflicts Quickly

Posted by on May 1, 2013 Comments Off

101Conflict photoAccording to Dr Jonas Laforge (see here) There are times when an argument can get way out of hand and actually lead to physical confrontation; which can lead to broken bones and missing teeth.

Let’s face it, some people have a violent streak and would reach for a bottle, chair, glass cup or any other item that they can throw at you when they get mad – you do not want to get into a fight with a violent person.

If you find yourself in an argument with a hot tempered person, here are top tips to help you resolve conflicts quickly:

Be Calm

When you notice that the person is shouting and getting all worked up, you should ensure that you remain as calm as you possibly can. When you are calm, this will also make the other person stop yelling and bring his or her voice down.

Do Not Yell – You will Only Be Adding Fuel to Fire!

Yelling back at a hot tempered person is just what they need to carrying on with their ranting. A hot tempered person just loves to talk and would want to ensure that they out-shout you. In order to diffuse the situation, do not yell! If you must speak, you need to speak calmly. Because the person does not want to be seen as the “yelling one” he or she might lower their voice and may want to reason with you. Most times, yelling back will also give a hot tempered person the chance to get all riled up and ready to explode.  Just ensure that you duck when they reach for any object that they can throw at you or at the wall.

Walk Away

If you notice that the person’s violent tendency is going on full gear, you should immediately excuse yourself. There are many cases of people who felt that walking away will make them seem weak; but they ended up badly injured or worse still; dead! There is no point trying to reason with someone who is acting like a crazy person. Your safety is of the utmost importance; so ensure that you take your leave when you notice that the person is beginning to “lose it”.

You need to remember that not every person will behave “normally” or the way that you expect them to behave. So, if you get into an argument with an unreasonable person, do the smart thing – do not encourage them.

iPad: Why it’s better than any android tablet 

Posted by on April 19, 2013 Comments Off

The concept of Tablet Computers is not new as many people assume. Very few people are aware of the fact that they have been around for almost 20 years. However, it was only in April 2010 that people started focusing attention on tabs. This was the time when Apple stunned the International market with a sensation known as iPad. It brought about a whole new dimension in the world of communication devices, leaving most of the world population in a state of shock.


It did not take time for iPad to make a name for itself. The device reflected a lot of attractiveness and it was classy. The fact that it was extremely easy to use was like icing over the cake. The very idea of carrying the iPad in the hand came across as something extremely ‘cool’ and trendy.

However, competition is never too far in this day and age and it did not take long for other communication device manufacturers to come up with something that was meant to give a tough time to iPad. In February 2011, Motorola became the first Company to come up with an Android Tablet. It was called ‘the Xoom’.

Android tablets too are equipped with some of the best features. The fact that apps can be downloaded instantly and stored into the device directly makes these tablets highly popular. This lead to a question that was more or less predictable. The consumer class was wondering as to which device is better between the iPad and Android.

Android smartphones and tablets as well as Apple's iPad

Android smartphones and tablets as well as Apple’s iPad

 

Comparing iPad and Android is a very tough job. To begin with, iPad is something that only Apple manufactures. On the other hand, Android is manufactured by every single Company that is into making hardware that has the ability to support the operating system of Google. With a number of Companies manufacturing Android, there is every possibility that some of the models would go onto become iconic in nature while some may not be upto the mark.

iPhone, iPad and Android Application

iPhone, iPad and Android Application

 

Although the comparison between iPad and Android is a tough one to execute, it is safe to claim that iPad scores more over android when it comes to applications. Apple launched iPad after doing lot of research. Its programmers were working on the device for a couple of years before it was launched in the market. Hence, iPad had thousands of apps the moment it was launched. On the other hand, Android was launched in order to make life difficult for iPad. Hence, the focus was more on getting the device ready within a short span of time. At the time when ‘the Xoom’ was launched, its apps category was almost empty. 

How to tell good guys from players

Posted by on April 18, 2013 Comments Off

How does one distinguish between a good guy and a player especially if a person had not been involved with a player? A player is the one who is always on the lookout for the next conquest. Even when he is with his date, he is constantly looking at other girls. Sometimes the date may not even realise this. He is also a smooth talker and more interested in getting physical even at the first date. He can talk sex all day. If you notice such symptoms in your date it is better to watch carefully or even walk away.

A genuine good guy always cares for the emotions and reputation of his girl. He respects her right to privacy and is not quick to rush into a physical relationship. He is kind of an every women’s dream man. How easy is it to distinguish between good guys and players? Sometimes players emulate good guys so well that it is very difficult to tell. Physical appearances, status, good jobs and sophistication alone cannot be a standard for a good man. No man is hundred per cent perfect and we all have flaws. Certain defects can be reckoned with and compromises can be made. Some things are incorrigible and a player falls under the second category.

However there are certain traits in a man which can distinguish him from a player. It is generally accepted fact that a man who treats his mother and family with respect reflects his the way he generally treats women although this cannot be single criteria that distinguishes good guys from players. To a large extent the family background of a person is an influencing factor. If he comes from a secure close knit family he is sure to have a sense of responsibility.

A First date conversation can vary greatly

A First date conversation can vary greatly

A player need not only be a man running after sex. He can also be dependent financially and strain women of the resources especially if she’s smitten with hid good looks. He may be a lazy worker and hence drain her of her finances. A workaholic on the other hand may be arrogant and offer no time for the women.

A player never takes responsibility for his actions. He is always blaming it on others and trying to move on. His dialogues are often intimate and relating to sex. He shows no interest in wanting to get to know you or your likes and dislikes. A good gut on the other hand waits to get to know you.

Let's talk about sex, shall we? Don't be shy

Let’s talk about sex, shall we? Don’t be shy

The best way to check players is to watch their body language subtly. If he thinks you are not looking and try to check out other girls he is a player. It is an indication that commitment and long term relationships are not his forte. A good guy can look at a girl and yet tell you what he feels about her looks or anything else he finds interesting. These are just small cues to look far. In reality it is difficult to really tell a player from a good guy unless you have dated him for a long time.

3 short exercises you can do at home to keep fit

Posted by on April 7, 2013 Comments Off

Not all of us can afford to buy all the fancy equipments that are available at the gym. However, exercise is an important part of our life without which it is difficult to stay healthy. The skill lies in doing the exercises without buying those costly equipments or even visiting the gym. There are some simple exercises that can be done at your home and can help you stay fit.

The following 3 exercises can be done at home that can help you stay fit

Walking and jumping jacks– The weather may not be very nice for you to go out and do work out daily. You can effectively walk within the house and do some aerobic exercise too. The aerobic exercises do not need a lot of space. You can use the stairs of your house and go up and down a few times. Though it may not be very exciting it can do the job. You can measure the calories lost after you climb up and down the stairs each time. It would give you a lot of motivation.

Exercises you can do at home.

Exercises you can do at home.

Pushups, Crunches and Leg Lifts – Pushups are not exercise that many people love to do. There are many creative ways of doing push ups that can help you do the exercise and gain from that. If you are looking to build muscles and strength in your legs you need to give enough exercise for your legs. This is possible just sitting at home. Initially you may find it very hard to exercise with your legs straight. However, you can do these exercises keeping your legs little bent. Crunches are excellent for strengthening the abdominal muscles.

Jogging and dancing– Jogging in one place can be an awesome exercise for your heart. This can be done easily from home. While listening to your favorite movie you can also jog at one place. All you need to do this is a great pair of shoes as it can safeguard against any stress that may come to your legs. Dancing is a blissful exercise that is considered great for weight loss and maintaining healthy heart. Dancing can lift your spirits and give you the much needed boost. This can be done comfortably from your home.

Jogging is a useful exercise, but if you do not do it properly, the risk of injury will always haunt you.

Jogging is a useful exercise, but if you do not do it properly, the risk of injury will always haunt you.

By doing these three short exercises you can make sure you are getting adequate exercise without the need to go out or join a gym. This would also help you save a great deal of money by saving on the heavy membership fees of the gym. You need not purchase any heavy equipment to give your body the workout it needs. You can use what ever you have at your house. So, start exercising today!

Investing: The 3 hottest technology stock investments for 2013

Posted by on April 3, 2013 Comments Off

The technology sector is an excellent sector for investors. It is the largest single sector in the market that outweighs financial and industrial sectors. Technology companies are renowned for innovation and invention. Their innovative new products and services provide them with a steady stream of growth prospects. If you want to make investment in the technology stocks for 2013, the top 3 choices are Amazon, Qualcomm and EMC


Amazon (NASDAQ: AMZN)

Amazon is one of the three hottest technology stock investments for 2013. Amazon serves through its retail websites and pays more attention on price, convenience and choices. It generates revenue by selling Kindle devices and serving developers and enterprises of all sizes. It also offers marketing and promotional services. The company has acquired the publication rights from Avalon Books recently. The stock price is around $272.

Amazon has come a long way from its initial days of selling books online. A study made by Forrester Research shows that the online shoppers in the U.S will spend around $327 billion in 2016. This is around 62% increase from a year ago. Hence, many investors believe that the core business of Amazon will continue to benefit from its leading position in the ecommerce space.

Amazon Serves Up Gingerbread For All

Amazon Serves Up Gingerbread For All

Qualcomm (NASDAQ: QCOM)

Qualcomm generates revenue from technology licensing, CDMA technologies, wireless and internet and strategic initiatives. The company has recently won the Voice and Data telecom Leadership And Innovation Awards for the year 2012. As the use of wireless telecommunication devices is increasing year after year, the company has great scope for growth and profits. The number of worldwide mobile connection is estimated to touch 6.8 billion in 2014. This is 1 billion more than two years ago. 3G is estimated to touch 2.75 billion at the end of 2014. Qualcomm has introduced ultra low power near field communication solution for mobile devices at the end of 2012. The chip is 50% smaller than the near field communication chips available in the market. The ideas and innovative products and services of Qualcomm are expected to continue to attract people all over the world.

Qualcomm shuts FLO TV, sells spectrum to AT&T

Qualcomm shuts FLO TV, sells spectrum to AT&T

EMC (NASDAQ: EMC)

EMC is one of the hottest technology stock investments for 2013. It is the top provider of IT storage hardware solutions. Recently, the company has integrated with VMware. More than 80% of VMware stocks is owned by EMC. VMware and EMC have leading technologies in core areas like cloud OS, information storage, information protection and security and virtualization. These areas have potential for substantial growth. The investors who want to take advantage of VMware’s growth can consider investing in EMC stocks. Many analysts expect the earnings of EMC will grow about 16% per year in the next two years.

Investors can also consider Apple (NASDAQ:AAPL). No doubt Apple will perform well next year. However, the top most choices right now are Amazon, Qualcomm and EMC. 

2013 Flicks: My Top Three Picks

Posted by on March 30, 2013 Comments Off

Another year has passed and this means that new movies are coming our way. The previous year had also been packed with movies worth spending the time watching and 2013 has yet unfolded a bunch of movies to root for. Amongst the 2013 movie releases, here are my top three picks:

The Host

Are you ready for some alien invasion? Stephenie Meyer is once more back (after the Twilight Saga) with the upcoming movie, The Host, which will be directed by Susanna White who also helmed Nanny McPhee Returns. Andrew Niccol was first rumored to direct the film but now that the director has been finally announced in public, they will soon get rolling. The Host centers on the Earth being inhabited by aliens who snag human bodies and erase their personalities. Now, this has quite a twist from Meyer’s bloodsucking works of fiction. This is going to be starred by Saoirse Ronan and its release date is set to be on the 29th of March this year.

Find out in Alien Invasion

Find out in Alien Invasion

The Bitter Pill

Steven Soderbegh is up for another all-star cast movie, The Bitter Pill, which stars Rooney Mara, Jude Law, Catherine Zeta-Jones, Vinessa Shaw and Channing Tatum. The Bitter Pill, as the title suggests, is a drama thriller which focuses on how drugs influence the human brain. Rooney Mara plays Emily Hawkins, the main character of the story, who turns to drugs to allay her anxiety involving her husband’s (Channing Tatum) release in prison. Jude Law also plays a psychiatrist in The Bitter Pill and Catherine Zeta-Jones is Dr. Erica Siebert. The Bitter Pill will be out in theatres on February 8. This is absolutely going to be psychedelic!

The Bitter Pill

The Bitter Pill

Die Hard 5: A Good Day to Die Hard

Bruce Willis wants it the hard way and is back for A Good Day to Die Hard (also known as Die Hard 5) which is helmed by phenomenal director, Len Wiseman. So, you think the Die Hard series is already over? After all the financial success earned by the series since 1988, this is still worthy of another sequel. This time, John McClane (Bruce Willis) is enemy number one among terrorists around the globe plus a crook Russian leader is on the loose. In order to keep the world a better place, he needs to work with his soon, also to keep both of them alive. Do you have any idea who’s going to play as John McClane’s son? That’s what we have to keep an eye on. A Good Day to Die will be on February 14. What a good way to spend Valentine’s Day with some action!

Indeed, there are so many movies to watch out for this year. Big names like Sylvester Stallone, Arnold Schwarzenegger, Jason Statham and many others also have something to keep us entertained in 2013. Whoa! I’m already stoked!